*I have not discussed my political views on my blog for a variety of reasons. I am taking a step out there now though. Agree or disagree with me but please be respectful with your comments. If not, I will just delete them.*
So I found out late Thursday that Sarah Palin was coming to Ocala on Saturday.
I immediately wanted to go.
If you know me personally you know I have never been one to get into politics.
Sarah Palin made me stop and listen though.
I have never felt that I could relate to ANY politician in my life. They were all a bunch of old men with lots of money...that could have cared less what I wanted or thought.
The first time I saw her was right after McCAin announced her as his running mate.
When she spoke about her desire to be an advocate for special needs parents I immediately got a lump in my throat. How long has it been since ANYONE in a position of such power given a crap about special needs kids? I honestly don't ever remember anyone in a position such as her caring.
I think she has handled all the negativity about her and her family with grace and dignity.
I went to the Rally on Saturday with my sister Elizabeth, Trishtwo, a friend of Trishtwo's and Makily. I curled Makily's hair and put her in the fall photo outfit.
I did something else I don't do too often.
I took Makily in her wheelchair.
Typically I don't do this if I am going out and about, we use the double stroller. I am still adjusting to the "wheelchair". The loaner we have looks like a wheelchair (the kidkart was typically mistaken for a stroller) and we get more looks than I would like to admit these days. Some are loving looks while others are rude gawks that make me want to smack someone.
We got to the Rally and had a hell of a time parking. I smart mouthed a cop on a horse for being a jerk. I just was not in the mood and she had us park in a dirt/grass parking lot on a hill....KNOWING we had a child in a wheelchair...and knowing we would have to go down that hill...when I saw the hill later I assure you there was NO ONE IN HELL we could have safely gotten Makily down it. There was handicapped parking but she was too much of an arrogant "be-och" to tell us. Thankfully someone else saw us struggling and told us.
So to the cop on the horse who was not only rude but ignorant....your a skank.
As we were walking up to go in the gate I said "gee this isn't very wheelchair friendly". There was a walkway that I had to get Makily up on with no ramp. IMMEDIATELY after I said that two men that were walking ahead of us, picked up Makily's chair and helped us up the ramp.
I got a HUGE lump in my throat and was able to choke out "Thank you".
We got inside after going through security and found a spot to sit. I noticed several people looking at Makily but for some reason I didn't care. I guess in my mind the person they were there to support had a special needs kid so they may as well be nice to us! :-)
We got there about noon and Sarah was not due to speak until about 3. Makily started to get agitated and very hot. I was starting to get nervous because I did not think it would get hot. It's been VERY chilly here the last week. Makily does NOT handle the heat well. I had no shade for the chair and was holding her and blocking the sun myself the best I could.
A very nice lady whom I had noticed looking at Makily several times came over with a black umbrella and said "She looks so hot, let's find a way to get this to stick on the chair". The next thing I know there are three other women surrounding Makily's chair trying to rig the umbrella to it, to shield my baby from the sun.
I felt the lump forming in my throat again.
Finally they got it to stay and Makily was shielded from the sun. At one point it fell and the nice lady came back and draped t-shirts on the chair for even more of a shade.
I couldn't get over how nice these strangers were being to us.
Mrs. Palin arrived and they played "We will rock you" as her caravan drove up. I got goosebumps seeing this huge crowd all pumped up and her bus drive by.
Her bus arriving.
She spoke eloquently and with many wonderful points.
She spoke about how Obama recently claimed that if you do not agree with his "share the wealth" views that you are selfish.
I am sorry but how is it selfish to want to hold on to the money you have worked so hard to earn? Is it wrong to want to decide where your money goes? We pay taxes just like everyone else and still get NO HELP when it comes to Makily whom the government agrees is "severally disabled".
She also spoke about her passion for special needs children. It was then that I felt many people looking at Makily and I...and they were lovingly smiling. I was fighting tears at this point and so incredibly proud of my baby.
When she was finished speaking she went up to parts of the crowd. A lady standing near us said "do you want to meet her"? I said yes and she said COME ON. She PUSHED everyone out of her way and we bowled through the crowd. We got all the way to the front and unfortunately Mrs. Palin had moved to the other side and we couldn't get over there. Once again I was in shock at how these ordinary people who did not know us from Adam were so adamant to help me...and Makily. One of the ladies told me she lost her 16 year old daughter last year. She said she was trying to get pregnant and that she would take any baby. A special needs child or not. We both got teary eyed and I hugged her. I wish I could have gotten the names of all the people that helped us and were kind to us yesterday.
It was a great day and just re-enforced my support of McCain and Palin.
Thanks to Elizabeth for these pics. I have a couple more I will put up later. My camera died right after Mrs. Palin got there.
Had to post this picture because it had me rolling afterwards. Elizabeth kept trying to get a picture of Sarah and this one woman kept moving in the way.
Does this lady have scary hair or what? Elizabeth had many shots of "Hair Lady".
Sunday, November 02, 2008
Sarah Palin Rally
Posted by Patyrish at 11/02/2008 05:35:00 PM
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AMAZING! I completely agree with your views about Sarah Palin. She is truly a wonderful advocate for kids with special needs. I think she deserves to be Vice President. The pics of Makily are gorgeous, and I am so happy that you met those wonderful, kind people.
Love,
Sami
I went to the social security office and found the stoopidest architectural design. The entire front parking lot was dedicated to handicapped people, but the doors were not automatic. Just getting in with a stroller was a feat of genius and strength for me.
Oh, the post office does that too. What's with these government buildings?! Sarah Palin will right it out.
Im all for her, and your blog got me all excited. Since were getting our views out there, it kinda peeves me how people are like "ooh, obama will be the first black president" or, "McCain is so Old"
Seriously, how shallow can it get?! If were soooo past racism, why is the color of our president such a big deal. And really, is old age the worst thing they can pin on McCain?
And about that "skank" she was probably just annoyed that you interrupted her horse ride... if you know what i mean... hehe....
I also agree with your views of Sarah Palin. The night she spoke about being an advocate for special needs children, my husband was watching. He started yelling from the living room to come listen to her speech. I grumbled on my way in....I had better things to do than listen to another boring political speech. He rewound it (gotta love t-vo!)and I sat on the couch and cried as I listened. I've spent the last 20 months learning to become an advocate for my son. It would sure be nice to have some help from the other side. I'm still hopeful....
Stephanie :)
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I love you! The description of arriving sounded very real and at times familiar...I'm proud of you for going and for taking the miracle that you are blessed with! I'm so very glad that God surrounded you with "helpers" and that it was such a warm experience for you...I absolutely LOVE the last pic!
Glad you got "the goods"...I'll stop wondering. :0)
I LOVE SARAH!!!!!
Anyway, we went shopping the other day and could not get the baby into ANY store....one of us had to sit outside each time....I kept saying to the store owners, how in the world do you get people in wheelchairs in here?!?!?!?!? They all just looked at me dumbfounded....
NO ONE EVER THINKS ABOUT PEOPLE IN WHEEL CHAIRS....EVER!!!!!
I finally just started saying..."I guess anyone in wheel chairs, just wait outside while everyone else has fun...." We could NOT believe it....its insane. Even when they make ramps and auto entrances, there is some places that you can not even get the wheelchair/stroller around the store once you are in....
Even the ramps are like "the stairway to heaven" you are walking back and forth, heading up, over and over to get to the entrance while the rest of the family walks up a measly four steps....
What an awesome experience! I like Sarah too!
Geez that post made me cry! Man, I hope they win tomorrow!!!
Love Sarah Palin too!!! We have so many people who do kind stuff for Zachary in his wheelchair and then we have people who can be a real jackass!
Im proud of you for going and for bringing Makily with you. Though I wont be voting for the Mccain Palin ticket, I absolutely understand your support for them and I came very close to voting for them as well. Dont worry though, I'm from New York, so my vote doesnt count for anything.
What an amazing experience you had. I truly believe that MOST people are considerate and caring of our special children. It was hard to adjust to having a wheelchair out and about, but now I like it. At least people KNOW she's "different", rather than staring at her and trying to wonder.
I love the picture of the hair, it cracked me up!
I am so glad that you had such a fantastic day and were surrounded by such kindness. I would have loved to have been there. I am a Sarah fan too.
I'm glad you had a good time! How awesome about the ladies helping to keep Makily cool! :) Dont you wish we saw more of that?
I really wish that McCain/Palin would have won the election :(
Btw- I tagged you for a photo Meme.. If you wanna play along, come over to my blog for the rules!
breah sebastian says....
Way to Go! I loved reading this, and I am so jealous. I too have felt a heartfelt connection with Sarah because of our special needs child. My husband and I were so bummed at the outcome of the election. Too bad you couldn't sway the rest of your state. It's amazing at how much different life can be if you're around the right people. You were surrounded that day with loving, religious, patriotic republicans!
OKAY FREELANCER!!!!!!!!!!!!! Where in the world are you???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
Your new job stinks!!!!
I was sitting with Allison in the Children's Hospital waiting for her gtube surgery the next day. When Gov. Palin stated that I would have an advocate in the White House, the tears just streamed. To have someone who would understand is such a far away dream.
Thanks for sharing this!
Jem
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