*update* Do ya ever think that.....

God is watching you struggle sometimes?

I swear last night I lost track of how many times I looked up and said "can I get a break here?" First of all Makily's leaking just continued all night, I am glad to say I stayed on top of it and that she did sleep some, as for me I was up all night long. If it werent for caffiene I would be a zombie. About 7am this morning she had a SCREECHING crying fit. It really was starting to scare me. I havent seen her freak out and scream like that in a very long time. She was kicking and squirming and flailing her arms all over. It was worse if I put her down. She at one point was crying so hard her little arms and legs were shaking. It was really upsetting me. I was worried because she hadnt pooped all day and kept thinking things like "bowel obstruction". HeR feeding schedule was all messed up and since she has all the belly problems already I was really starting to worry. I got up and rinsed her off in the tub to get all the blood and goo off of her. I went to wrap her in the towel and it got all twisted and so I am fighting with the towel and her and I looked up and said "CAN YA HELP ME OUT HERE GOD!" Makily is VERY impatient so when I am doing something she wants it done and done right the first time (yes I am not kidding, can you imagine having a 19 lb boss?). So since I am a fumbling idiot with the towel and not doing my job efficiently enough for my tiny supervisor.......the screaming begins. I am wanting to scream too because now that she is crying......yes you guessed it, the button starts leaking AGAIN!!!!!! I get her wrapped after much protest, sit on the couch and snuggle her, she calms THANK YOU GOD! She was still fussy but not the writhing fit she had been earlier. I put on "Madagascar" and she immediately gets quiet and intently watches it. This kid is so hard to figure out. Just minutes before she was so hysterical you would have thought I was peeling her skin off. Not long after I decide I need to feed her. I have been bolus feeding her. I attach a tube to her button and at the end of a tube I put a syringe where the formula is poured in. The tube has 2 ports. One for medication...the other for food. Now since we have had all the leaking G tube mess, I had gone through ALL of Makilys blankets. So last night I did an entire load of laundry that was just her blankets, towels and her bouncy seat cover. I have her all clean and happy, watching TV with nice, clean, fresh blanket and CLEAN bouncy seat cover when WOULDNT YA KNOW as I am feeding her the med. port pops open and formula goes everywhere!!! Yes I again looked up and this time said "ARE YOU KIDDING ME!?" Thankfully I caught it fast enough that I got my thumb over the med port and somehow one handedly closed it back. I continue the feeding and with the last 1/2 ounce the med port pops back open, this time spilling on Makily, the bouncy seat, blanket and of course me! Another glare upwards and I scream "THANKS ALOT!!" I get Makily all cleaned up and settled, I left her in the bouncy, just dried everything the best I could. I was afraid if I messed with her too much she would start freaking out again. I know I joke about God "watching me struggle" and how I look up and whine/moan but I know that God IS with Makily and I. I think when I get frustrated though I just expect him to come down and make it all "better" and that is not the way life is. LIFE IS NOT EASY for anyone and so I need to just accept that. There is a reason FOR EVERY SINGLE STRUGGLE you have in your life and in mine. I am learning that.......it's sometimes hard to realize though when you are in the "thick" of things.
Allen came home for his 10 hour break today and not long after the LONG AWAITED new button arrived. I was so happy and left a message for Dr. Pierre to call me and let me know when to meet her at the office to have her put it in. I laid down to try and get a few minutes of rest when I hear Allen say "Oh gross, I HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF THIS RIGHT NOW!!!" I sit straight up and say "is she leaking again, where is the gauze, what's happening" in the sleepiest, half awake voice you can imagine. He says "no look at her!!!!!" Well I look at my angelic little baby, my sweet girl who when she is not ill is the BEST BEHAVED BABY ever, who's smile will light up the entire room and laugh gives me warm fuzzies inside.....and she is C-O-V-E-R-E-D in POOP. She managed to get one side of her diaper open and was "playing" in her doo doo. She had pooped smeared on her face, legs, feet, hands! THE SMELL WAS HORRENDOUS but I have to admit there was a little part of me that was so very happy to see that poop.....obviously no bowel obstruction! hahahahahahaha
We immediately put her in the tub and Daddy cleaned her up, what a great guy eh? Needless to say I will be washing the bouncy seat cover again today! Dr. Pierre called a few minutes later and said to meet her at the office at 1pm. So we get Makily dressed, we decide NOT to do her hair as when you brush her hair she cries.....which will cause the dang button to leak. So I go in a pair of jeans, my unwashed hair in a pony tail, no makeup and Makily in a sleeper looking like her hair hadnt been brushed in ages...when it really has only been about 12 hours! She has UNMANAGABLE HAIR! I use conditioner AND infusium on it! Allen was the only one of us that looked decent but I was so tired I didnt care. We get to Dr. Pierre's office and Makily is sleeping like a log. We get things set up, I am on the table with Makily. When Dr. P took the button out Makily woke up and started crying. Dr. P had to cauterize more than I thought she would have to because the skin was breaking down so bad. My poor angel screamed and shook the whole time.....I know it had to hurt like hell. I kept closing my eyes and asking God to make it not hurt so bad....it really sucked. Allen was sitting in the chair with his head down......I wonder if he was praying the same thing. It felt like it took an hour but in reality probably all of about 15 mins. We put some ointment on it, the new button in and now it seems things are as good as new. She fussed for a while but when I walked out of the office she seemed to start to calm and then fell asleep in the car on the way home. I think everything will be fine now. I just hate that she had to go through that and deal with the pain. Makes my heart hurt and I did cry a little when we got in the car. No child should have to deal with this kind of thing. I will never understand it, I guess it's not for me to understand though, God is trying to teach me something.......and I feel like I am learning more every day.