Thursday, October 09, 2008

Holy Guacamole.....Prayers have been answered.

Makily is being GIVEN a custom made for her, brand spanking new:

SLEEP SAFE BED

Remember now, this is the bed I have fought and begged for since February.

How did this happen you ask?

No it's not the insurance company, they still have not budged.

I am still so floored by this I don't even think it has completely sunk in.

As many people know I have been a member of a infertility/parenting board since 2001/2002. These women have walked the last four years with our family. They have been a huge source of support for us. When Makily was born I can't count how many boxes of preemie clothes and diapers these ladies sent to us. When she has been on death's door they have rallied together and sent care packages of gift cards, candy, movies.....things to help me keep myself sane.

I was very depressed when the Insurance company told me that Makily's bed was denied again. I sat on the floor crying and really just wanting to throw my hands up.....and give up. I had posted on the parenting board about how defeated I felt. That I was tired, I had tried everything, I had called everyone on the planet for help with no solution.

Unfortunately though, I can't give up, it's for Makily and so I have to continue fighting for her because SHE DESERVES and needs these things.

One of the owner's of the board and a close friend of mine Dj Aguilar was infuriated with all we have been through to get a bed for Makily.

She and all the other ladies on the board were racking their brains trying to figure out a solution for me....they could all tell that I was SPENT.

My friend Dj
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Dj sent a very touching heartfelt email (which by the way I had a hard time reading it through my tears) yesterday to the owners of Sleep Safe Beds. She basically detailed our story and how we have had to fight for ANY assistance and even then we are sometimes left with no help. That we have tried to get EVERY state funded insurance as a backup and were denied based on income OR because we have private insurance.

Dj received an email back this morning telling her that one of the owner's and his wife had been following my blog for quite a while now. They knew who Makily was and wanted to know what specifications we would need in a bed for her......then they said they wanted to GIVE Makily a bed.

That's right G-I-V-E!

They told Dj to have me call and just let them know what I needed down to the color of the bed and they would take care of it.

There are NO WORDS to describe the weight that lifted from my shoulders at that moment. I was blinded by happy tears.

I called them this afternoon and spoke with a sweet lady named Casey. We went over what all we needed and Makily should have her bed by Christmas. What a Christmas gift this will be! There were many upgrades and features that she willingly added for Makily. Without a second thought, whatever my baby needed they were giving it to her. They are even giving her a full size bed instead of a twin. It will grow with Makily and she will be able to use it for quite some time....I'll also be able to snuggle in with her!

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All those months of crying, faxing, begging, writing letters and being denied were fixed in one email and one phone call.

I am speechless.

How do you thank someone for thinking enough of you to write a letter that sparks ANOTHER person to so generously hand over a piece of medical equipment that costs THOUSANDS and THOUSANDS of dollars?

I told Dj on the phone today that I don't feel worthy.

Saying Thank You just seems incredibly lame under circumstances like these.

I told Casey at Sleep Safe thank you so many times I think she probably thought I had lost my mind. I was rambling on and on, I just am floored at the amount of generosity being shown to my little girl.

To the owner's of Sleep Safe Beds, Joe Hallock and CEO Gregg Weinschreider I thank you from the bottom of my heart. That just does not seem like enough. I wish I could come there and hug both of you so tight. You are proof that there are still amazing people left in this crazy world. This has been such a source of stress for me for such a long time now and I really did not see an end in site. The last several weeks I would go into wake Makily up in the morning for school and immediately get angry. She would be in horrible positions in a toddler bed that was too small for her, that had a mattress that is made for an infant. Not being able to provide your child with something like A BED that you know they desperately need is incredibly heart breaking and upsetting.

You lifted that weight off my shoulders.

You ended that stress for me and I am so incredibly grateful.

THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!

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***I have had a couple of people ask me for the email address for Sleep Safe Beds so they can offer their thanks for what they have done for our family.***


Here is their email address:

sleepsafebed@sleepsafebed.com



35 comments:

Anonymous said...

I just kept wondering.....and wondering...wishing I had several extra thousand dollars:):) I am SOOOO happy for you guys...that is really, really, great and its nice to know that there "are" still some really sweet angels out there....I think I will send them a card thanking them...I just love nice people!!! The ones that do what they did NOT have to do....I have goose bumps!!! Love it...

Anonymous said...

What a wonderful story! I'm so happy for you! And amazed at your friend's letter!
I just stumbled upon your blog and wanted to learn more about the Sleep Safe bed, but I couldn't get the links on your blog to work.
I did a Google search and this is the URL for the Sleep Safe company in case anyone else wants to check it out:
http://www.sleepsafebed.com/

- April in RI

Patyrish said...

Thanks April! I think I fixed my links. If anyone has any trouble let me know!

DESJ and Company said...

speechless. i am speechless.

enjoy it...

Anonymous said...

WOW!!!!!!!!! HOW TOTALLY AWESOME!!!!!! GOD DOES ANSWER PRAYERS!!!!!!!!! i hope that one 'anonymous' poster from the other day reads this totally straight from heaven miracle.

Anonymous said...

I love you Trish! You guys deserve this and so much more! I can't thank the Sleepsafe company enough for their generosity, I was just the messenger. :) Love you guys!

Violet said...

That is so WONDERFUL! I teared up during this post! Yay, Makily is getting a bed! Praise God!

Anonymous said...

Trish, that's such wonderful news and little Makily totally deserves this wonderful bed. I'm so happy for you guys and what a WONDERFUL company to make such a compassionate donation!

Unknown said...

This is amazing! You and doodles deserve this!!!!! It amazes me how awesome our CAB girls are (Deejay you are the best) and it blows me away how generous some people can be! I'm so excited for you and I'm so happy this weight has been lifted off your shoulders! I can't wait to see this in Makily's room! I can't wait to see her all SAFE and tucked in bed!

Tabatha said...

What a wonderful generous gift,I am speechless by their generosity. Your prayers and struggles have been answered by such a wonderful company Trish...Thank You Sleepsafe, Makily really needed this bed.

Lynnelle said...

I am so over the top excited for you!!! Wow! Isn't amazing the angels we have in our lives and appear and help us. So glad that Makily will be safe and sound!

Tia said...

How utterly wonderful! The kindness of strangers and friends.

Tia

Post Tenebras Lux said...

Yes!!! Thank you, Jesus! Trish, I am *so* happy for you!!

Anonymous said...

tara said...
wow. that is just utterly amazing. praise God, He is good! you are such a good mama for never giving up!

Unknown said...

Its amazing how Miracles come to you.
What a wonderful gift for your daughter Trish. You couldn't ( and Makily) deserve it more.

Thank you DeeJay and thank you to the sleep safe company.

Dusty said...

I am SO happy for you Trish. The owners of the sleep safe bed company are AMAZINGLY generous. I am so glad DJ wrote to them.

It's because of YOU and your amazing strength that made DJ want to help you and made the company want to donate their services to you. Trish, you're an amazing person, mother and friend.

Cynthia said...

lol..btw, the above comment was from me, not Dusty. The computer had him signed in last. Sorry =)

Anonymous said...

Hey Trish - maybe some of us could add our "thanks" to yours? We've all been wishing we were able to help with this, and the fact that someone was able to help is just incredible! If you have an e-mail address or something, I'd be glad to add a "thanks" from another friend? Just a thought....

Patyrish said...

Terri, this is the email address:
sleepsafebed@sleepsafebed.com

I will add it to my original post too.

Anonymous said...

Oh how great! I don't know anyone who deserves this more than Makily and yourself!! It's very rare that anyone show this kind of generosity now days and you are lucky enough to have one of those rare people as your friend. And for a company to do that is just amazing :) Again, You guys so deserve this!

Anonymous said...

This post brought me such joy! On a day full of sadness and lull brought on by a horrible economy and just life being difficult- it is so WONDERFUL to know that there are still caring companies out there, willing to be so generous and good. People helping people. It gives me so much hope during these difficult times to know there is still good in the world. Thank you for posting and for making my day with this great news. I am so happy and relieved for you!

Lori Osero said...

Oh my, Congrats! I am so happy for you. You have brought tears to my eyes. This is wonderful you have worked so hard to support your children as deserve this so much. Yes what a WONDERFUL christmas gift, a true miracle as people these just are not that nice any more, especially with our kiddos. I am filled with joy for your lil girl. She's getting a BIG GIRL bed, wow! Take care

Andrea "The H family" said...

TRISH--ALL GLORY TO GOD
YOUR FRIEND THAT WROTE THE LETTER:
BY GOD'S GRACE and YOUR WHEWING--again, to God be the GLORY
TO SLEEPSAFE:
I'm a sleepsafe owner --I'm even more determined to blog about your generosity and your hearts.
YOUR PRODUCT IS AMAZING.

Anonymous said...

tara said...
i thought you already contacted the sleep safe bed people yourself?

Oleg Rabinovich said...

That is wonderful. The guys at Sleep Safe did a wonderful thing. They absolutely deserve the gratitude of everyone here.

Momma chaos said...

Wow that is just awesome!! I'm speechless! To have a friend willing to go the extra mile & try to get you the help you needed AND then a company that actually responds soo wonderfully!! Congrats!

Esther said...

That's such wonderful News Trish.

SFCityGirl said...

I have been following this blog for awhile after randomly stumbling upon it. I don't even remember how. I am so happy for you and your family. I think it is amazing that they are doing this for you. You deserve it.

Anonymous said...

What an amazing gift! Miracles can come true. What you do for your little girl daily makes me want to be a better person, a better mom...You are amazing and you deserve this for your beautiful daughter. It certainly is a great feeling to know that generous, loving people will go the extra mile....Goes to show how we should never give up. What a beautiful act..
GenWat

Proud Mommy To An Angel said...

Yay! I am sooo happy for you guys!

Becky said...

Holy crap, that's AWESOME!!!!!!

sami2009 said...

This is amazing! That's so so so great! I am soo happy for you guys.
Prayers for you!

Anonymous said...

I am so happy for you Trish! You and your family deserve this "break"... And it truly is wonderful that there is a company out there that really is about HELPING people.

shrubski

Lady Esther said...

That is so wondeful for the company to do that for you. I totally understand your frustrations with the insurance companies!!! I have been trying to get a bed for my child too for a long time. God will step in sometime here at the right moment. But we might have to settle for a crib. I am glad that you will be able to sleep in peace now and not worry about your little one.

Kathy D said...

I am soooo happy for yuur little one that finally received her Sleep Bed. I am the great grandmother of a 4 year-old twin born at 25 weeks weighing 1# 8oz that has severe spastic cerebral palsy with multiple other problems. She has grown to the point that she can no longer fit in her crib. We have been requesting and appealing and appealing for a Sleep Bed with absolutely no success. Our answer to our last appeal was for us to place a mattress on the floor in a room that has had anything removed that can injure her. Oh my, I cried thinking of this option. This child is so spastic that she is all over the bed throughout the night so I can just picture her flailing off of the matress during the night and on to the hard, cold floor where people have walked and germs all over. Talk about cruel!!!! We are still hopeful and I pray that they will give in someday. I pray for what they have done for your little one. Please pray that we will someday win this battle. Thank you.